How to stop the cycle of abuse🤚

I did not know what a narcissistic personality was until I woke up and realized that everything that was important to me was taken for granted or taken away. When I was silent and did not speak up, when I walked on eggshells to keep the peace and when I felt stupid for the choices I’ve made that I thought were good. I’ve been stripped naked from my own self worth, only to have awaken and realize that this has to stop and that I had to make a change. I will no longer live in this pain since this is NOT LOVE.

Namaste🙏

How to stop the cycle of abuse

There are so many questions about how to leave or where do I start to leave a toxic relationship. Often times, I see posts about where they feel it is their fate to be in this kind of relationship and it really saddens me to read it. Their partners will cheat, lie, emotionally torture them, physically abuse and hurt you. Than they will turn around and say this magic three words that will keep you hanging on once more until one day, it might be too late.

“I AM SORRY!”

What it is really telling you is, “please let me continue to hurt you in that matter which I know you truly deserve if only you didn’t……

Now this is the dreadful part you really need to stop for one moment and actually hear what they are saying…..”If only YOU did not make me so ANGRY, If you only YOU were not so STUPID, if only you did not give me this ATTITUDE, if only YOU were not such a SLUT, I cheated on you, because YOU don’t do it for me anymore, YOU are not attractive, if only YOU did not nag me all the time, etc., unfortunately the list can go on and on. IF ONLY, YOU, YOU, YOU and where is the, ME, in all this??? This is where the abuse lies and mentally hurts you into believing it is your fault, which actually is their own responsibility for their own actions! Let’s just say hypothetically you are all those things they mentioned, it does NOT EXCUSE THEIR ACTIONS! Who are they to judge when it is right or wrong in the actions you are displaying verses their own?

The answer is, NONE!!! They are shifting blame onto you for their own actions and that is a BIG NO!!!

"NO ONE DESERVES TO BE ILL TREATED IN ANY WAY!"

There are no excuses for their actions and I can tell you that through my experiences and learning about, “Domestic Violence,” this is NOT LOVE. The reality of the fact is that they really don’t love you and that really hurts. You already know deep down inside that they don’t, I am just confirming it!

What to do from here?

****Ask yourself this****

1)Do you really want to live your life with someone who does not LOVE YOU?

Do you really want to continue your life with someone that you fear?

Do you want to be with someone who is intimately with someone else?

Do you want your life to continue in shame, heartache and misery?

***OR***

2)Do you want your life with someone who truly loves you?

Do you want your life with someone who truly makes you feel comfortable and happy?

Do you want to be with someone who chooses you and is only intimate with you?

Do you want your life filled with joy, love, and happiness?

If your answer is (1) which no one will want to choose this for their lives, than perhaps you should continue on this path.

If your answer is (2) it is time for some changes NOW. NOT LATER or when you believe the time is right, IT IS NOW!

Where do I start?

Do I just grab my bags and leave ?

Well, the answer to this question, has to be thought through. You will need to educate yourself and ensure that when you do leave, there is a back up plan and that you are confident within yourself to ensure that you don’t end up going back or pursuing same kind of relationships that are toxic.

On my next blog, I will discuss on How to do that and what it will require to get yourself out of this abusive cycle towards true love.

Namaste🙏

How to stop the cycle of abuse

Tune into that energy of abundance and let go of fear and negativity

It is a cycle that is vicious since you subconsciously not realizing it, yet it is a karmic cycle that is happening over and over unless you change it! It is unbelievable how we are so brainwashed in negative ways that we actually look forward to how we can express those negative emotions with one another. We operate in a state of lack versus in a state of gratitude. We are programmed to be a certain way that seeks approval where being different is a code of hopelessness. How can we possibly achieve greatness with ourselves where the bars are lifted that virtually no one can reach? The answer to this question is, “STOP!” Rewire that nonsense you’ve learned, and start, “OVER.” Operating in a higher consciousness will lead you to another way of life. Things that seemed important, have no longer value and you will appreciate every efforts going forth. It is a way of life where there is fulfillment instead of lack and when you hit that alignment, everything will be natural state of flow. When you can learn to switch of fear and turn on faith, you have love and that is everything. Nothing seems impossible anymore since it is within you. There are no more differences or comparisons, it is just a matter of balance. When you can rewire yourself to that state of being, you have IT!!

It is by taking risks and following your heart’s desires that you will find happiness🙏

It is not a simple process as it seems. There will be patience and time required to heal within and find balance. There will be times where you are going to doubt everything and you may find yourself lost within the system. This is all going to help you find balance and love within yourself. Be humble and accept this part of the process. Accept the times of depression and the times of real happiness. Although everything seems like an emotional roller coaster, it will get better and you will see the changes happening. In order to heal we need to accept and release everything that has not worked for us.

We are so much more valuable to ourselves and to society. There is no one that can ever take that power away from you unless you allow it. Therefore live in the NOW and appreciate the beautiful soul you truly are. There is nothing that is lacking in your natural state of being.

****WE ARE ALL EQUAL****

Namaste 🙏

How to stop the cycle of abuse

How to stop the cycle of abuse ✋

The story of Krissy Wright

There was a moment in my life where I didn’t take care of myself, where everyone else’s needs came before mine. With years of not making my needs priority, I’ve started noticing how I was feeling. I starting feeling as if I was always sick and really tired. I would look myself in the mirror and I actually looked sick. Everything was aching and I absolutely had no energy. Eventually, I am noticing that no matter how hard I tried to please everyone, it was never enough. I had to draw a line and that line starts with myself.

I am worthy and I deserve
“ME”

When you take the time to actually take care of yourself, you are taking care of something so much greater than you actually comprehend. Imagine as if the Univers is saying to you, “Thank you.” It is amazing the…

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How to stop the cycle of abuse 🤚

The story of Krissy Wright

We keep asking ourselves why is abuse happening to me? Why am I being treated this way? What did I do to deserve this? And one of my biggest questions are, why is abuse accepted? Now you are probably thinking that this is not true and how can this be possibly accepted?

We are allowing it to happen, not consciously, however subconsciously. Although everyone is saying it is not happening to me, it is happening all around the world. People are ignorant especially when it comes to themselves. When it comes to power over humanity the greed of any ones way will lead the way no matter the consequences.

The important one that makes it for all, for when it all started, it started with ourselves. We need to stop abusing ourselves today! We need to look in the mirror and see our own reflection. It is the reflection within ourselves that has the answer to all our doubts, insecurities, un faithfulness, greed, expectations, lessons, anger, war, to all our questions as to why we are living in abuse. Our reflection holds the very truth of our humanity. It is not with one that the other is superior to the Lord, we are the one, the only way, the only light.

Spread out your love and I will be there. I will be there as a gift of life and I will hold you in forever peace with love that is the only way of life. You spread love, you spread life, you spread me, God. I don’t tell you how to live or how to act, since it is through you that I live. I speak to everyone and I say this. Close your eyes and feel your heart, feel your very chest, the very air you breath, feel your skin and open your eyes, you are now awake. Awake to me, awake to life, awake to love the only way. You seek shelter, breath, you seek guidance than seek it with your heart, you seek answers, seek it within yourself. I have giving everything you ever needed. It is right here. Love is the only answer!”

Namaste🙏🏻

How to stop the cycle of abuse

How to stop the cycle of abuse ✋

The story of Krissy Wright

We keep asking ourselves why is abuse happening to me? Why am I being treated this way? What did I do to deserve this? And one of my biggest questions are, why is abuse accepted? Now you are probably thinking that this is not true and how can this be possibly accepted?

We are allowing it to happen, not consciously, however subconsciously. Although everyone is saying it is not happening to me, it is happening all around the world. People are ignorant especially when it comes to themselves. When it comes to power over humanity the greed of any ones way will lead the way no matter the consequences.

The important one that makes it for all, for when it all started, it started with ourselves. We need to stop abusing ourselves today! We need to look in the mirror and see our own reflection…

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How to stop the cycle abuse

How to stop the cycle of abuse ✋

The story of Krissy Wright

I honestly could not tell what love was since I could not actually feel it only defend it. There is a difference to have love and to defend love. I couldn’t tell you how many times in my life I had to give excuses or justify why I did what I did. At some point you just don’t feel anything anymore and that is the time to open your eyes. Your heart never lies and I know that now.

Today, I am married. Not only am I married, I married the man who loves me for me! You see…I’ve never thought that I was that kind of person that is capable of having someone love ME. Yet here he is and for the first time in my life, I know now what it feels to love. I don’t have to try anything or find excuses…

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“I AM”

The power of affirmations and how it gave me strength

One day I was thinking about affirmations as I sat down. I had a sip of my coffee and I thought to myself, “lets give it a try and see where it leads me?”

I pulled out this old journal and every morning with a cup of coffee, I sat down and wrote my affirmations. I was not looking for love, however I was looking for a change in my life. I was in a toxic relationship that was not serving me and things have gotten rather difficult. I wanted to give my daughter a better life and I knew that if I stayed, that I would do her more harm. However I did not have the financials and the confidence to get out where I was. It was the sort of situation where I felt like I had no options and I was trapped. Every day as I sat there doing my affirmations and surely as if the Universe was tapping on my shoulders to show me the way, things started falling to place. I’ve started changing and what I was attracting into my life started changing. Once I tapped into that dimension, I also received signs and guidance as to what it is I had to do. It was not my voice, it was a very distinctive voice, a very reassuring voice that would confirm that I was already feeling. I call it the voice of God. I started having premonition dreams that I would meet my soulmate, get married and have a child together. In the dream it was represented to me in a form of symbols. I never actually thought that it would be possible and I actually gave up the thought of having another child after my daughter. A year shortly after, I met him, and we got married and we have a son. This is so powerful and amazing at the same time. Affirmations truly work since they change your subconscious thinking and bring you to a higher realm where the flow just comes to you. Be patient with yourself and don’t expect this to work over night kind of thing. It will take as much time needed until you are truly healing within to be in the flow of energy source. I would also recommend to continue doing the affirmations to be in the flow of receiving.

Here are some examples of affirmations that can be used and I would definitely write them down as it is more effective.

I AM worthy

I AM love

I AM Happiness

I AM one with higher consciousness

I AM Enough

I AM Beautiful

I AM Wealthy

I AM Intelligent

I AM Loved

I AM Light

I AM Swimming in an ocean with endless opportunities, wealth and abundance

I AM powerful

I AM sure of what I want and I get what I want

I AM Rich

I AM Attracting abundance into my life now

I AM Attracting Love into my life now

I AM One with the Creator and the Creator is one with me

I AM Magnificent

I AM Now receiving good and graciously into my life

Write them down as many times you like during the day and include meditation or take up yoga classes along with it. Watch how your life will start to change. Whatever change you do experience noted down either by clicking the link below or by leaving comments so that others can be encouraged through this experience.

Many blessings on your journey!

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Namaste 🙏🏻

Finding my “True Love”

“The Poetry of Krissy Wright”

When you can let go and find true love, it is a blessing. Sometimes in order to appreciate the greatness we first need to walk through the darkness to see the light. When you can find someone who really loves you, hold on to them. This is the real deal. I am here to tell you to follow your heart and see where it guides you. I have followed mine and it has taken me out of a toxic relationship to man who truly loves me the way I AM. This has come to me in a point in my life where I wasn’t looking for love, however I was finding love with myself. By learning how to love myself, I have found soulmate.

True love

There are times I can’t comprehend

How I could ever feel this way

There are times where I am in disbelieve

With the amount of love you give to me

How you can be this perfect kind

My only kind

There is something between you and me

That in words we can’t describe

Yet it is filled with warmth and desire

Where when we touch it is hot like fire

You burn through my veins and shiver through my skin

you are the only one that takes away all the pains

You are my beginning to a road with no ends

With possibilities that holds miracles

A guidance of true love

We will never part

You are my only

The only kind

That will ever touch me

The way you do

As I have no words to explain this truth

Baby, I really really love you

Dedicated to my husband Shaun Pearson

Namaste🙏🏻

How do you really find Abundance in the world we live in today?

Is it possible to be happy in the world that is so unsatisfied and so very imbalanced? Is it even possible to find peace when there is so much hatred ? How do you keep faith and be positive in the most challenging times ?

I have learned that I have to look beyond this and instead of looking outward at what is going on around me, I have to look inward in what is going on within me.
Happiness comes with a choice of acceptance, presence and having Faith in the unknown.

To be happy and to feel happy are a state of being. I can either chose to be positive of how I choose to look at a situation or I can choose to react negatively. I can decide for myself to stay in a toxic relationship that gives me grief or I can make the choice to leave it and learn from it. When there is a will, there is a change in the way we make choices and with our lifestyle. It does not come with wanting everyone else to change, yet it has to do with ourselves being the change. Very often and even today at times I let fear control my life instead of having faith. Therefore I do not allow myself to take chances and to let go. The moment that I can let go and release the fear, I am free! There is so much more to life that we can possibly comprehend. Understanding that we need to find Happiness within ourselves gives us the opportunity to change. It also gives us the opportunity to heal that has hurt us and wisdom. We learn to grow and become a better version of ourselves. When we can heal the wound that is within us, we can clear whatever we have learned to survive. We create this barrier and protection and let fear guide us to not get hurt again. This is what is blocking us from abundance.

Neal Donald Walsh wrote books about, “Conversations with God” and some of the quotes I find very fascinating.

“that what you do to others, you do to yourself; what you fail to do for others, you fail to do for yourself; that the pain of others is your pain, and the joy of others your joy, and that when you disclaim any part of it, you disclaim a part of yourself. Now is the time to reclaim yourself. Now is the time to see yourself again”

Neale Donald Walsch, The Complete Conversations with God

“This one simple change—seeking and finding peace within—could, were it undertaken by everyone, end all wars, eliminate conflict, prevent injustice, and bring the world to everlasting peace. There is no other formula necessary, or possible. World peace is a personal thing! What is needed is not a change of circumstance, but a change of consciousness.”

Neale Donald Walsch, The Complete Conversations with God

I highly recommend reading his books. They are absolutely inspiring and amazing read. It has come to me in the right time where I was asking a lot of questions. I can tell you that this book has changed how I perceive this life and how I see God.

Therefore, If we don’t like the way the World is operating, we need to change the way we operate within. There is how we can find true abundance and happiness in our lives and on this Earth.

Namaste🙏🏻